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One of my favorite things to do on a day off, drink coffee, route plan, and chat (especially in a motor home) |
Would you believe me if I told you I enjoy doing "nothing" on my days off? To me, taking refuge inside, cut off
from the outside world sounds like a real treat! It sounds absolutely delightful to sit down at a kitchen
counter, catch up on emails, blog.
I can spend hours researching and exploring on the internet the ideas
and thoughts I’ve had whirling around in my head after riding my bike for hours
and days on end. I love to take
refuge indoors, hidden, and completely barricaded from my outside
environment. Of course, "nothing" is all pretty relative, but in comparison to biking 70 miles or 100kms a day, nothing usually means starting out with a nice long run in the morning after trying my hardest to sleep in, and
then I might make a huge pancake breakfast. But after that little bit of activity, I love to
veg
out and stay put, relaxing on the sofa or
at a breakfast bar.
You see, day-after-day, I’m constantly outside, sightseeing,
and exposed to the world. Others
don’t realize it, but in reality, my life at the moment allows for very little
privacy. The road belongs to
everyone, and almost everyone out there feels compelled to interact with
me. I’m not complaining by any
means because I do enjoy conversing with others and meeting new people, but I
don’t have the option to go home at the end of the day, and take refuge in a
private, intimate environment. As
much as I enjoy being hosted, it’s challenging to balance me time and social interaction. In fact, many times, my
hosts feel like they need to entertain me, or they feel obligated to interact
with me. But to tell you the
truth, I feel right at home with the hosts who respect the fact that I need my
down time and space and they themselves carry on with their normal day.
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The Fleck family welcomed me to their wilderness paradise on the outskirts of Denver |
In the Denver area, I had some delightful days off! First I stayed with the family of my
neighbors from Eugene. They were a
neat family of four who lived about 30 miles east of the city in a woodsy
area. In the morning we all had
breakfast together and then some of us went for a walk. After that, it was great to see that
each family member had their own interest and desire to do different
things. Everyone respected each
other and the fact that they needed some time and space, even if we were in the
vicinity, we were all lost in our own worlds. Mom and daughter were baking while the son explored what it
might be like to create his own website (I think I might have inspired him
there) while dad went off for a bike ride. For a moment, it was like I was right at home with my
family, and it felt like I fit right in, as if I’d been with them for a good
long time. But as my trip goes, I
had to hit the road later that afternoon and was off to visit some other
friends in the Denver area.
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Here is a guy, Sean, who is just as enthusiastic about pancake breakfasts!!! |
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Boy did I luck out, Jess and Greta wanted to bake muffins and guess who got to sample them? |
On several occasions on this trip, I’ve been able to visit
with friends who I haven’t seen for years and years. I hadn’t seen Linsy really since I graduated from high
School although we met in Spain briefly when I first went over. Linsy and I go
way back, we went to preschool and high school together and ran cross-country
together for one season where we bonded immediately, although I’m not sure how
much running we did in comparison to talking. Since then, Linsy has a new last name, now married to Randy,
who I got to meet and they just had their second kid. Randy, is an amazing chef, they have a four year old
daughter, Hadley, and a newborn boy, Hayes. Remember, I love hanging out at a home, and this was just
what Linsy does with a newborn. We
talked, and talked, sharing about our family, friends from high school, and
life events from the past 15 years!
I got to hold Hayes, Randy cooked for us, and it was like we’d just seen
each other yesterday, not much had changed, as far as values, beliefs, and
interests. After my pleasant
afternoon with Linsy and family, I had the most wonderful dinner date waiting
for me in Boulder where I was staying with a family I met in Barcelona.
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Sheldon High School Cross Country running partners meet again |
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Holding little Hayes, a great alternative to pedaling......Dare I saw my arms were sore afterwards? |
I got home from spending the day with Linsy and I was
spoiled with the best dinner date of my trip, Carter, a student I had in second
grade back in Barcelona. When I left Barcelona, they moved on to Thailand, but
unfortunately I missed them when traveling through SE Asia, so a visit to their
new home of Boulder was imperative!
Carter and I were both nostalgic for Asian food, and enjoyed a delicious
meal in town together. As a teacher, a lot of times we forget that the kids we
teach grow older just like we do.
Now 10 years old, I was in awe listening to Carter’s interpretation of
living abroad. He shared with me
his perspective on Asian culture and religion. I was fascinated by the way he
was able to verbalize his experience living abroad in three different
continents during the last four years.
I think the waitress was baffled by our relationship, not understanding
whether or not he was my son, and hopefully knew I wasn’t into younger men, at least
that much younger!
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The last time I saw the Kahns we were all in Barcelona |
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Hard to believe your 2nd and 5th grade students actually get older! |
Our dinner date
lasted for a good couple of hours sharing our experiences and stories from SE
Asia. It had been a long times
since I had been reminded about some of the perks of being a teacher that we
normally don’t think about. I’d like to think that I had some impact on this
guy becoming a young adult. At one
point at dinner Carter asked me, “Ms. Melissa, how do you know so much? You are
like a dictionary!” It made me
laugh because I actually felt as if we had switched roles; me the student and
Carter the teacher. I was
intrigued by his perception of living abroad and the different cultures. I couldn’t stop asking him questions. At one point he confessed and said,
“Ms. Melissa, sometimes I just want to say to other kids,…hey, I’m not your
normal kid. I’ve lived in so many
different countries, but then I think they
won’t like me because I’m bragging, but I just want to share with them some of
my experiences.” His comment was
truly sincere and modest, and I was astounded by the way he was able to
articulate his emotions.
Ironically, at the end of our dinner, the fortune in his cookie couldn’t
have been better suited for him as he starts a new life in the United States.
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It was eery how "right on" his fortune was for Carter at that moment in time in his life. |
Some of most cherished days or mornings off occur when my
hosts leave for work and for a few hours, it feels as though it is my house, my
space, and my privacy, that can’t be invaded by anyone. But I do have to admit, that I equally
enjoy my active days off, especially if I get to explore an area that means I
avoid monstrous climbing on my bike, like I did in Estes Park with my friend
Newt. Northwest of Denver lies The
Rocky Mountain National Park, and I was curious to see what this national park
was like if western Colorado is already covered with mountains. I had plans to meet Newt there, my
hitchhiking friend from Arches.
This is my third encounter with him and I’m delighted to say it won’t be
my last! I rode to Estes
Park at the base of the park and that was enough altitude gain for me! The sofa in his motor home is the most
comfortable bed and I love just chilling in the fifth wheel. After enjoying a few cups of coffee (while looking at maps and talking about route planning of course) and
eating the most nutritious bowl of cereal, we set off to the park to hike up to
a few lakes. It wasn’t a long
hike, but we kept a really fast pace and enjoyed some beautiful scenery,
including walking on snow.
Afterwards we drove up to the summit on Trail Ridge Road, the highest
continuous highway in North American and I must say, the road doesn’t seem safe
for cyclists, so I was fortunate to be in a car! We went all the way over to the west side of the park, had
lunch in Grand Lake, and headed back to Estes in time for an evening concert in
the park. Again, it is days like
these, off the bike that I enjoy, because they totally change my routine and
for a moment, I feel like my life resembles that of every other normal and more
conventional person in this world.
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In my opinion all of Colorado should be a National Park with the Rocky Mountains |
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The Keen sandals take on snow in the Rockies, nothing stops us!
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In the park, I officially hit my highest elevation although I wasn't cycling. The summit was at 12,183ft. (3,715ft.) A bit chilly.... |
As my trip progresses, I find myself craving more and more down
time on my trip. I think this is only natural, considering the nature of my
trip, my accumulated exhaustion, and being out of touch with my conventional
life. I relish the days when, for a split second, I forget that I live on the
road on my two wheels, 4 bags, and 70 pounds of belongings, constantly exposed
to the world around me.